How Much Do You Recommend I Bring for Spending Money?

Clients are recommended to bring at least an additional $50/day for food and incidentals while traveling to a foreign city for a Real Social Dynamics Live Program. There may or may not be club fees, which may be an additional $50 – $150/ night; however, we often avoid clubs with fees.

Does Your Material Work on Women of Any Age or Nationalities?

Our material works on women of all ages and nationalities. The average client is in his 30′s; however, RSD has taught clients from the age 18 to 75. All of the material that we teach works amazingly well on women of younger age groups, and works just as well on women that are older and more mature.

To make the event truly individualized, Bootcamps Instructors attempt to create a program that involves field experience with women in the age group preferred by the client.

What Costs Other Than Live Program Fees Should I Anticipate?

The Live Program fee will cover the registration and Instructor fees. However, we recommend Clients bring money for food, transportation, and club entrance fees. Although we minimize the traveling we do for Live Programs, Clients cover their own transportation fees. Also, we often do not need to pay cover charges for in-field venues, however there may be cover charges for certain venues.

Is My Name Confidential if I Attend Live Programs?

Absolutely. Our Clients’ emails, names, and personal information is not shared. We ask that you give us your name and contact information so that we may contact you before, during, and after live programs. Your contact information will not be shared with anybody outside of Real Social Dynamics or with anyone providing a similar service, nor will you be added to other people’s mailing lists.

What if I cannot attend my previously scheduled live program or I need to transfer to another weekend?

Note: the following policy does not apply to Julien or Derek Bootcamps, which are non-refundable.

Any CANCELLATIONS or NON-ATTENDANCE for non-Derek/non-Julien, and non-1-on-1 or non-5-day bootcamps or TRANSFERS/POSTPONEMENTS are as follows:

-30 days or more prior to the first day of bootcamp – full refund or free transfer
-Less than 30 days prior to first day of bootcamp – deposit + any balance paid towards bootcamp forfeited
-For transfers, any outstanding balance must be paid in full at the time of re-booking. One courtesy transfer is allowed, subject to approval, up to at least 30 days prior to the event.
Following any one-time courtesy transfer, all payments related to the bootcamp are non-refundable.

-For non-Derek 1-on-1 Bootcamps, cancelling less than 90 days before the program will result
in forfeiture of any payments and 0% refund. No re-scheduling is allowed less than 90 days before a 1-on-1 Bootcamp.

-For non-Derek 5-Day Bootcamps, cancelling less than 60 days before the program will result
in forfeiture of any payments and 0% refund. No re-scheduling is allowed less than 60 days before a 5-day Bootcamp.

-I understand that payments towards any Bootcamps scheduled with Derek and Julien are non-refundable. One single courtesy postponement/re-schedule is permitted, provided at least 45 days notice is given to The single transfer to a future bootcamp is allowed when a seat is still open 12 or less days before its start date, not multiple weeks or months ahead of time. Example: if one were to transfer to a Bootcamp that starts on Friday, June 20th, the transfer can be confirmed beginning on Sunday, June 8th or after if a seat is available.

-I understand that all outstanding balance amounts towards Derek 3-day Bootcamps are due no later 45 days before the first day of the Bootcamp. All new signups/registrations within 45 days require payment in full.

-I understand that all outstanding balance amounts towards Derek 4 or 5-day Bootcamps are due no later 60 days before the first day of the Bootcamp. I understand that registrations for Derek 4 or 5-day Bootcamps are non-transferable.

-I understand that if I have not paid any outstanding balance in full no later than the stated deadline (45 days prior for 3-day bootcamps group session bootcamps –or- 60 days prior for 4 or 5-day bootcamps), my seat will automatically become available for sale to the general public, and my deposit will be forfeited as a result of not paying my outstanding balance on time.

What Should I Bring or Wear to Live Programs?

When attending a Bootcamp, do not wear tennis shoes or shorts unless Instructors specify otherwise.

All Bootcamp Clients are requested to wear what they would usually wear when they go out to bars or go out with women. Wear your favorite outfits so that Instructors have an idea of your usual style and fashion. All students MUST wear leather dress shoes and MUST wear a collared shirt to program on Friday night.

If you’d like examples of what to wear, check out GQ, Maxim, Esquire, and Details Magazines.

What Lodging Should I Arrange for the Live Programs?

It’s best to get a hotel, or accommodations close to the nightlife of the city, which is usually downtown in most metropolitan cities. Do a web search on or to find the best rates for hotels in the city where you will be attending a Live Program, or get choose your price for hotels at

You can also obtain cheap, safe, dormitory-style lodgings in a hostel. Hosteling International offers lodgings in almost every city in which Real Social Dynamics conducts programs.

What is the 100% Money Back Guarantee for RSD Bootcamps?

Note: The following policy does not apply to Derek Bootcamps, which are strictly non-refundable.

This is a LIVE program and we have a limited amount of time to work with you. To maximize your learning and personalized attention within that time, we limit the course to no more than 3 clients per instructor. Because of these constraints – there are 3 requirements in place, each of which must be met, for a partial or full refund to be considered. These are in place to be fair to BOTH the instructor -and- the client. This is also to put the ‘risk’ squarely on our shoulders, and to give you full confidence in taking the program.

1) You must attend the entire program. In order for the instructor to give you maximum value, you must attend all the sessions and be engaged 100% in your participation. If you skip parts of the course, walk away, leave without the instructor’s consent, or show up late to the bootcamp sessions, you will NOT be eligible for a refund.

2) You must provide honest feedback to the instructor via our email concierge system promptly after day 1 -and- day 2 of the bootcamp (but before each of the next day’s sessions) — if you do not do this, you will NOT be eligible for a refund.

3) You must communicate to your instructor in good faith about any dissatisfaction during the bootcamp’s pre-brief or debrief seminar sessions prior to day 3, allowing him sufficient time to address your concerns, and make any adjustments necessary to the curriculum so he can attempt to satisfy you 100%. If you request a refund after the bootcamp has concluded, you will NOT be eligible for a refund.

If you meet the 3 requirements listed above and still are not satisfied, we can offer additional compensation in the form of a credit towards other products and courses. Our organization has strong values around ‘continuous improvement’, so we are constantly developing more potent and effective programs. We want to keep you as a customer for years to come, especially as we grow and continually offer exceptional courses that we know you’ll find valuable. As a bootcamp alumni, you are eligible to attend our twice annual World Summit events which happen every February in Miami and every August in Las Vegas. These are 5-7 day conferences where several hundred of our best and sharpest bootcamp alumni gather with the entire RSD instructor staff for daily seminars and also go out nightly in some of the best cities in the world for meeting women. Your bootcamp alumni status gives you a complimentary LIFETIME pass to attend these events for free (which cost $1000 per World Summit for non-bootcamp alumni). Go to to learn more.

In rare cases, we may elect to give you a partial or full cash refund. If this happens, it’s a ‘clean break’ and you will not be permitted to attend any subsequent live programs with RSD. The bootcamp is our most effective program at improving guys’ success with women and it’s the course our business has been built around since 2002. If you really didn’t get any value from the bootcamp, it’s extremely unlikely that you’ll get value from our other live programs. Additionally, it wouldn’t be fair to an instructor teaching a future live program to have a client placed with him who has previously refunded another course — and thus occupy the seat of someone who would have a 99% chance of being very happy with the program. Many of our live programs often sell out (particularly in the case of bootcamps) and we often have multiple clients registered on waitlists due to additional demand. Therefore, if we decide to give you any sort of cash refund, understand that you will not be allowed on any future RSD live programs including Bootcamp, World Summit, Immersion, and Hotseat.

Who will attend the Tyler bootcamp if I pay extra for his program?

If you are attending the Tyler bootcamp, you will still get the 3:1 ratio of Instructor to Student. Tyler will have at least 1-2 other Instructors and each of those Instructors will have up to 3 additional students.

Can Clients Pay With a Payment Plan?

Yes, you can call +1 310 652 0137 and create a payment plan based on your finances and history with Real Social Dynamics. If we ask you to make a deposit to hold a reservation (since our Bootcamps sell-out), then you must pay the balance at least 1 month prior to attending the Bootcamp to keep your space on the bootcamp.